Improving your "yes" rate.
The majority of the time we would rather hear yes then no. Have you ever thought about how you can influence how often you receive yes for an answer? Below are a few paragraphs from an article by Arlene Johnson that explores how you can improve your yes rate:
"If you are getting more no's than yes's when asking others for
support, resources or important agreements, heads-up. You might
consider reversing the pattern! First, let's check your yes rate.
Thinking of the last requests that you have made of others, a
colleague, boss or customer (or spouse), what percentage of their
responses were yes versus no? Your answer is your yes rate. If your
yes rate is above 95%, congratulations! You can use this information
to reinforce what you're doing right, and to use as a coaching tool for
others!
Any yes rate below what you consider to be an
optimum percentage, could impact what you want to achieve in your
business or personal life. So, assessing your yes rate is definitely
worthy of your time and consideration.
Here's the good news:
you can easily and effectively improve your yes rate by using a
collaborative conversation approach, and by understanding and speaking
to an individual's or group's most important yes factors and no factors."
You can read the article in its entirety here.
-Brianna